That’s the caption Amanda Vogel wrote on the TikTok video she posted depicting her 4-year-old daughter on stage during a school concert.
Her daughter is in a wheelchair, sitting on the side of the stage, as the other children perform on risers.
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“We did not plan to homeschool. We tried our best to set up a good foundation for her to be successful and included at school,” Vogel wrote. “Unfortunately, there is only so much parents can do on their end. Watching her placed off to the side while her peers stood together and realizing no one noticed before the end of the concert was it for us.”
Vogel uploaded the video of the 2023 concert in December 2025, after pulling her daughter from the School District of Pittsville in Wood County.
The video has 917,500 likes and has been shared nearly 28,000 times as of Friday afternoon.
According to the school district officials, Vogel’s video is harassment.
On Dec. 19, 2025, two days after the video was posted, attorneys for the district sent Vogel a letter demanding she “cease and desist from engaging in any additional harassing and intimidating behavior toward District educators and support staff.”