For Kearsley Higgins, raising a baby in San Francisco was idyllic. She and her husband owned a small two-bedroom house in the Castro, she found plenty of activities for her daughter, Maya, and made friends through an 11-member mothers’ group.
Now as the mother of an almost 4-year-old, with a baby boy due in September, Higgins has left. A year ago, she and her husband, a digital artist, bought a four-bedroom home with a large backyard in San Rafael. Maya easily got into a popular preschool and will be enrolled in a good public elementary school when the time comes.
The other moms in Higgins’ group have moved on, too – to the East Bay, the Peninsula, Michigan and Texas. Just one of the 11 still lives in San Francisco.
“Everyone was very committed to the city when we were starting, and then they all left,” said Higgins, 36, a stay-at-home mom. “You see tons of strollers in the city and people running around with the little ones, but then the vacuum occurs.”