The Secret of Dads’ Success

Sue Shellenbarger:

After dinner at Todd and Jodie Schiermeier’s house in O’Fallon, Ill., it is “tackle Dad” time. That’s when Mr. Schiermeier gets down on the floor with their three children, Rylee, 7, Kinsey, 4, and Jace, 20 months, for a session of “horseback rides and pillow fights and tackle and wrestle,” he says.
It is a stark contract to Ms. Schiermeier’s playtime with the kids, who says she mostly cuddles them or has “a little tickle fight.”
The rough play is already benefiting her older daughter, who is “a little timid,” Ms. Schiermeier says. “She has toughened up a little” playing with her dad. “He is teaching her how to take the blows of life, and to get in there and fight.” All three kids are learning to take turns and work as a team. For Mr. Schiermeier, that is intentional: “I push them to get outside their comfort zones.”