Barbara Kantrowitz & Pat Wingert:

In the next few weeks, parents of college freshmen will be helping their kids pack up all those seemingly indispensable items for dorm life. Sending a child off for what is probably his or her first extended period of independence is scary, and many parents try to cram in last-minute bits of advice. Here’s one more: talk about drinking. This is a critical conversation whether you have a son or a daughter, but it’s especially important for young women to understand the ways in which they risk both short-term and lifelong health problems if they abuse alcohol during these years.
First, a reality check. Laws against underage drinking don’t stop kids who really want to drink. Colleges around the country have made efforts to crack down at on-campus functions, but it isn’t easy when fake IDs are just a scanner away. So don’t count on fear of the law to do your work for you.