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February 9, 2009

Time for that 'sextortion' talk with your teen

Jim Stingl:

As a parent, I thought I knew a few things about teenagers. And as a male, I figured I understood how guys think.

After hearing last week about the New Berlin Facebook sextortionist, I'm not so sure.

It made me wonder:

Did Anthony Stancl, the 18-year-old defendant, just one day dream up this scheme he's charged with and decide to prey on his classmates at Eisenhower High and risk going to prison? Was sex by blackmail really his best hookup option?

Could he have dreamed that 31 guys, tricked into believing he was a female classmate on Facebook, would send along a naked photo or video of themselves? How many said no is not clear, but 31 thought, yeah, where's my camera?

Do guys now have a good reason to believe that a girl at school truly wants naked pictures of them? And that she'll send one of herself back to them? And that it's perfectly safe to swap pics on the Internet where nothing ever falls into the wrong hands?

Isn't everyone who approaches you online potentially someone other than who they say they are? Kids are adults. Boys are girls. Girls are cops.

Isn't the Internet both the most fantastic and most monstrous invention in our lifetime?

Posted by Jim Zellmer at February 9, 2009 1:01 AM
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