For Fraught Preteen Years, A Class on Being a Friend

Michael Alison Chandler:

She surrenders her room, with its cozy couch, to the ponytailed pre-adolescents, and their dramas unfold: How could you pretend you didn't see me in the hallway? Or: Why did you invite Celia to your slumber party and not me? There's the inevitable "That hurt my feelings" and the occasional "I'm sorry." On a good day, they leave the room Best Friends Forever. Again.

Many of the girls are graduates of "Chicks and Cliques," a course Dunne designed to curb the gossiping, rumor-spreading and snubbing that's endemic to girls. She helps them figure out how to talk through their problems, then she lets them borrow her office to use their new skills.

Posted by Jim Zellmer at February 10, 2006 6:30 PM
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